3 Apr 2014

Domestic Violence Against Men


There are often points *time frames” in good relationships that bring us to a thoughtful analysis of whether everything really is right and in order and we question ourselves about whether the foundation of the relationship is established, even after many years of fruitful partnership, As the relationship moves through tests and trials, surely one or even both partners must come to question the impact that one partner has on the other. What keeps the relationship solid and together; is it religion or love; perhaps both; is it domination or effectual submission? Well! Whatever keeps couples together, sometimes people submit to the wrong ideals and principles of the other; the practices and thoughts of partners impose upon the progress in the relationship and begin to slowly eat away at its fabric. Everything is moving forward gently and in good order until, suddenly, the dominant partner exerts selfish authority. What now?
What happens next?

Do we submit? Do we allow the extremities of abusive oral behavior, for example and physical violence to prevail in an ever permissive society?

Who is the man?

Who is the woman?

Who wears the trousers?

Surely man is man and surely the man rules in his own house, taking authority over the woman in a relationship that is otherwise equal?

Surely a female dominant partner knows the extent of her dominance and cultivated that dominance knowingly to overpower her partner?

I believe that every dominant female partner knows exactly what they do when they forcibly impose their ideals and threats upon a submissive male. I believe that they instinctively take the submissive male partner and view him as a threat to their hierarchy and control and in doing so will go to great lengths to keep that control, even to the point of murder and certainly violence.

It’s so pitiful really, as these weak women cower in an oblivious state of madness as they foster their self destruction.

For men interested in knowing more about violence against men by women, here is a really useful article by the Mayo Clinic.com; well worth a read.